Our unforgettable journey was filled with laughter, discovery and bonding and I wish to share with you and encourage you, mother or father, to take the time for yourself and practice self-care.
Nowadays, women are overloaded with responsibilities – mostly when you are a mother at the same time you excel in a thriving career.
You are always needed, somewhere, somewhen, somehow. I’m fortunate to have a partner by my side throughout this journey. I truly admire single mothers who do all of this on their own.
It is a loving and caring job, for sure, but one that takes a lot of energy and time. And one that makes you wonder – where am I in all this? Where is the time for myself?
All this said, question in mind, me and five other friends, with similar feelings and journeys, decided it was about time we took a moment of bliss for ourselves – to rediscover friendship, who we are and be carefree for nine days.
For years, my long-time friends and I talked about travelling just the six of us. We dreamt about it and planned it in countless ways!
Unfortunately, as it happens with most plans, one of us could not make the journey. Still, we packed our bags – our essentials (a bit more than when we were eighteen years old, for sure!) and made it happen.
The journey started with a long one-stop flight: Lisbon to Qatar, Qatar to Colombo.
Feelings of tiredness and home sickness were evident – we found ourselves looking at our children’s pictures in our phones and thinking how challenging it can be to simply go for a self care journey.
Still, the excitement was palpable, particularly when we landed in Colombo, the bustling capital of Sri Lanka, where we were welcomed with a vibrant energy, busy streets, and the intense aroma of local cuisine.
From there we headed to Sigiriya.
We checked in at the Tree House Hostel and nestled in the middle of the forest, late in the evening.
We slept with a cool breeze flowing through the open structure, carrying with it the fresh scent of the surroundings and the sensation of the breeze against your skin as you lay in bed, providing the perfect natural air conditioning for a restful sleep.
Just as I was about to close my eyes, I spotted fireflies in my mosquito net and outside in the trees! Calmly, I told the others, “Guys, there are fireflies everywhere!” They jumped in excitement from their beds as if they were 6 years old again, and soon I had my bed crowded with the five of us, just to stare at the fireflies.
Their dance through the air is a peaceful and calming experience, ideal for drifting off to sleep. What a gift from nature!
As the first light of dawn filtered through the trees, the forest awakened with a symphony of sounds.
The songs of the feathered inhabitants, combined with the playful chatter of monkeys swinging through the branches, made for an unforgettable wake-up call at the Tree House Hostel.
The drive through the lush countryside to Sigiriya was serene, but nothing prepared us for the sight of the colossal Lion Rock emerging on the horizon.
Its sheer size and the thought of its historical significance filled us with awe.
We felt a mix of reverence and excitement, knowing that we were about to tread where kings and ancient civilisations once walked.
As we began our ascent, the path took us through the beautifully designed water gardens.
These century-old symmetrical pools and fountains are a testament of the advanced engineering skills of the ancient Sinhalese.
Halfway up, we encountered the Mirror Wall; initially polished to reflect the king’s image, it now bears ancient graffiti left by visitors from long ago.
Reading these inscriptions, we felt a deep connection to those who had stood before us, marvelling at the same sight.
As we finally reached the summit, we were greeted by a panoramic view that was nothing short of spectacular.
After exploring the awe-inspiring Lion Rock, we noticed a sign on the side of the road that read “Farm visits,” so we stopped and decided to go for it.
It started with a ride to a lake and a boat trip.
The water shimmered under the midday sun, reflecting the lush greenery and the distant silhouette of the rock fortress we had just conquered.
Our boat ride concluded at a small village on the lake’s edge, where local families warmly welcomed us. They graciously invited us into their homes to experience authentic Sri Lankan hospitality and cuisine.
The flavours were rich and varied, each bite telling a story of the region’s culinary heritage. We even had a go at “trying” to cook!
After the farm visit, we continued our journey through Sri Lanka, which led us to an unexpected gem: the Golden Temple in Dambulla.
With its tall and serene golden Buddha statue, the temple is a beacon of spirituality and peace.
We marvelled at the majestic golden Buddha, standing 30 metres high, a symbol of the rich cultural and spiritual heritage of Sri Lanka.
Though our stop was brief, the Golden Temple left a lasting impression on us.
It was a moment of tranquillity and reflection amidst our bustling itinerary, marking on us the beauty of the country’s deep cultural roots and spiritual traditions.
Our adventure continued with a scenic drive to the charming city of Kandy.
The journey itself was a treat – winding roads took us through verdant hills, tea plantations, and quaint villages.
The views were spectacular, with every turn revealing a new postcard-perfect scene.
Our anticipation grew as we approached Kandy, eager to explore what the city had to offer.
Upon arrival, we checked into Bunkalow Brunch and Bunks, a newly opened hostel that was cosy and welcoming, making us feel right at home.
We headed to Hideout, a trendy restaurant renowned for its eclectic menu and vibrant atmosphere.
The restaurant’s stylish decor and warm ambience instantly drew us in.
Initially, we planned to travel from Kandy to Ella by train, but since we had a driver (the best driver ever, by the way), we decided to drive along a picturesque road instead and catch the train only in Nanu Oya! It was a journey filled with scenic stops and historical discoveries.
Rolling hills, lush tea plantations, and vibrant greenery lined our route, providing a constantly changing panorama that enchanted us. Halfway through our drive, we made a quick stop at Ramboda Falls.
The sight of the water tumbling down the rocks was mesmerising, and the cool mist offered a refreshing break from the journey. Continuing our journey, we stumbled upon the Newark Ely Houses, a collection of English colonial-style homes that stood as a testament to Sri Lanka’s rich history. These houses’ classic architecture and charming facades transported us back to a bygone era.
Our journey began at the unassuming Nanu Oya Station, a quiet little hub nestled in the heart of the countryside.
The station, with its charming old-world feel and the gentle hum of anticipation, was the perfect starting point for what would become one of the most memorable trips of our lives. Just so you know, it is normal for the train to be late – punctuality isn’t really a thing!But it was perfect anyway, as we could grab a bite and people-watch.
As the train pulled in, it was clear this was no ordinary ride. The locomotive exuded an air of character, its sleek exterior and polished brass accents hinting at the care and pride invested in its upkeep. But the men who commanded the train truly set the stage for an unforgettable experience.
The conductors’ genuine interest in our experiences and their engaging stories turned an ordinary train ride into a remarkable adventure. Just a few minutes after boarding the train, a man called Chaminda invited us to ride with the parcels right at the front of the train. It was EPIC!
Please note that the best tickets to buy, to get a chance to ride with the doors open and take that picture we all see everywhere, are second or third class.
First class does not allow for an open-door experience. The ticket is less than 1 euro, by the way – and the best euro you will spend, believe me!
The train’s destination was Ella, a picturesque town nestled in the lush hills of Sri Lanka. As the train eased to a stop under the canopy of a starlit sky, we disembarked into the cool, fresh evening air.
The town, with its inviting stores and cosy cafés, offered us a perfect blend of relaxation and discovery, leaving us with a sense of fulfilment and a desire to return.
The journey to Dream Ville was an adventure, beginning with a thrilling ride in a safari jeep that manoeuvred through winding, rugged paths, navigating the lush, green terrain with skill and precision.
Every minute was an adventure.
The Ville’s isolation made it a haven of peace, with only the sounds of nature for company – the gentle rustling of leaves, the distant calls of birds, and the occasional murmur of the mountain breeze.
It was the perfect escape, offering a chance to disconnect from the world and reconnect with the natural beauty of our surroundings.
The only sounds we could hear were those of nature and some fellow travellers with a guitar and gentle singing voices! Magical!
Known for its panoramic views and relatively moderate climb, Little Adam’s Peak promised a rewarding experience and certainly lived up to its reputation.
The climb was steady but manageable, and the occasional breaks allowed us to catch our breath and soak in the beauty of our surroundings. Actually, I have VEJA to thank for this one! If it weren’t for their Fitz Roy trainers, things would have been more slippery and challenging.
Reaching the top of Little Adam’s Peak was a moment of sheer delight. The panoramic view was amazingly beautiful – rolling hills, lush valleys, and distant mountains stretched out in every direction, bathed in the soft light of the early afternoon sun.
However, the real excitement was yet to come. After a brief safety briefing, we took our turns on the slide.
The experience was exhilarating – racing down the smooth surface, the wind rushing past our faces, and the sensation of freefall combined to create a rush of adrenaline.
Visiting the Kinellan Tea Factory was like stepping into a verdant world where tradition and craftsmanship blend seamlessly with Ella’s lush, green landscape. As we moved through the factory, we interacted with the workers, who were dedicated to their craft.
Their expertise and attention to detail were evident in every aspect of the process, from the careful handling of the leaves to the precise control of temperature and humidity.
The tour concluded with a delightful tea-tasting session, where we could sample a variety of teas produced at Kinellan. Each sip was a revelation, showcasing the unique flavours and aromas that result from the factory’s traditional methods.
Every day is a chance to learn, and we learnt that the tea we usually get in the supermarket is actually called “dust” because it is literally dust and the “not so good” part of the AMAZING tea Sri Lanka and India produce.
Ending the day at the Nine Arches Bridge was a fitting finale to our enchanting adventure in Ella. As the sun descended, casting a warm, golden hue over the landscape, we made our way to this iconic landmark, renowned for its stunning beauty and historical significance.
Also known as the Bridge in the Sky, it is an architectural marvel that spans a lush green valley with nine gracefully curved arches. Built during the British colonial era, this railway bridge is a testament to the ingenuity and craftsmanship of its time.
The experience was inspiring, a reminder of the beauty and tranquillity of nature and history.
Apart from the beauty of the bridge itself, I must say that the people made our afternoon. The colours, the smiles, the welcoming body language.
When its time for sunset, everyone meets at this bridge in a traditional and informal way at the same time. From young to elderly, from Hindu to Buddhist from locals to travellers, everyone reunites…Truly amazing!
It was time to “try” and cook something!
Our cooking experience at Dream Ville was a highlight of our stay, transforming our time there into a culinary adventure that was as delightful as it was memorable.
Set against the backdrop of an open-air dining area, we weren’t just eating for sustenance, but as a form of celebration of local flavours and as a testament to the joys of cooking together in such an idyllic setting.
We learnt to make traditional Sri Lankan dishes, such as fragrant rice and curry, spicy sambal (normally found in breakfast too), and delicate hoppers. The aroma of spices sizzling in the pan, the vibrant colours of fresh vegetables, and the hands-on techniques created an engaging and rewarding sensory feast.
Our visit to Diyaluma Falls was a refreshing escape into nature’s grandeur, offering an experience that was as exhilarating as it was beautiful.
Located in the heart of Sri Lanka’s lush wilderness, Diyaluma Falls is one of the island’s highest waterfalls, cascading majestically over a series of rocky ledges into a serene pool below. It was incredibly hot, and all we could think of was immersing ourselves in the refreshing waters and marvelling at nature. As we approached the falls, our anticipation grew with each step.
The journey to the viewpoint involved a short trek through verdant forest paths, and the sound of the waterfall grew louder as we neared.
Upon arrival, we were greeted by the breathtaking sight of Diyaluma Falls in all its splendour. One of the highlights of our visit was the opportunity to explore the natural pools formed by the waterfall.
The clear and refreshing water provided an ideal way to cool off after our hike. Swimming in the pool, with the waterfall’s roar in the background, was a truly rejuvenating experience. It felt as though we had stumbled upon a hidden paradise, a place where nature’s beauty was on full display and where the stresses of everyday life seemed to fade away.
I cannot lie and say it was just us and nature – there were a few other tourists, not many, but everyone respected their space, which was definitely a plus.
Experiencing Udawalawe National Park was a journey into the heart of Sri Lanka’s wild beauty, where the excitement of a safari combined with the rare and unforgettable thrill of an up-close encounter with one of nature’s most majestic creatures.
Our open-top jeep rolled smoothly over the rugged terrain, offering unobstructed views of the park’s rich flora and fauna. The highlight of our safari was an extraordinary encounter with a particularly gentle elephant.
We had the rare opportunity to get incredibly close to this magnificent creature. The guide, who had established a bond of trust with the elephant, carefully facilitated our interaction, allowing us to approach with respect and care.
The moment of touching the elephant’s skin was awe-inspiring — a tactile connection with the rough yet surprisingly warm texture that spoke of the elephant’s strength and grace.
REMINDER: Do not touch or feed animals or engage in any non-natural actions. We did touch the elephant because he approached us and touched us first; it wasn’t us initiating the contact. He was a curious teenager who wanted to get closer, and for us, it was an amazing gift and a reminder of how we are one, and how we need to take care of each other.
Leaving Udawalawe National Park and heading towards our next destination, Hiriketiya, was an adventure that allowed us to witness the diverse landscapes of Sri Lanka’s interior, transitioning from the wild expanse of the national park to the coastal charm of this picturesque beach town.
Arriving in Hiriketiya and settling into the tree houses at MOND Hotel felt like stepping into a serene escape from the ordinary, where nature and luxury intertwine to create an unforgettable retreat.
The hotel’s design harmonised with the natural surroundings, featuring eco-friendly materials and a layout that embraced the local landscape. The interior design was thoughtfully curated, combining natural textures with contemporary furnishings to create a cosy yet elegant atmosphere.
A spacious deck extended from the tree house, offering a perfect spot to relax and soak in the breathtaking views of the tropical landscape. Sleeping without windows brings a unique connection to both our inner selves and the surroundings.
I remember my first shower after travelling – a simple action that turned into deep self-reflection and pleasure. Because not everything is perfect, I had a small argument with Barbara (yes, our ‘mum boss’) upon arrival.
A mix of tiredness and pent-up frustrations led us to clash a bit! I screamed, she screamed, she went off to the beach, and I set off for dinner.
It’s five women, one trip, and one itinerary mostly organised by one person, so it’s only natural that things don’t go perfectly!
I share this with you because it’s reality and not just a fairy tale. Our argument didn’t last long- we just needed to vent a little, but love and friendship don’t allow for more than an hour of not talking to each other.
Honestly, with so many personalities on this trip, I thought we’d argue much more, but that didn’t happen, and we just went with the flow of being carefree. How nice it is to NOT think about what you have to make for dinner?
Hiriketiya Beach is a coastal gem that offers the perfect blend of laid-back charm and vibrant energy.
It is an ideal destination for novice surfers and those seeking a refreshing seaside escape. From the moment we arrived, the beach’s inviting waves and cool, relaxed atmosphere set the tone for a day of adventure and relaxation.
The cool breeze and the warm sun made for a perfect afternoon of relaxation and people-watching. The water temperature was just perfect! Ahh! And right beside us on the beach, there were some cows.
They weren’t very chatty, but they were very friendly!
As the day progressed, we set our sights on a visit to Blue Beach Island, a stunning location renowned for its breathtaking sunsets.
The island’s untouched landscape and clear waters offered a serene escape, ideal for reflecting on the day’s adventures.
The timing of our visit was impeccable, as we arrived just in time for the sunset.
The sky transformed into a canvas of vibrant colours—fiery oranges, soft pinks, and deep purples blending seamlessly into the horizon.
We sat on a rock, closed our eyes, and connected with the beauty and strength of that magical spot.
As darkness fell, the island’s natural beauty lingered in our memories, and we returned to Hiriketiya Beach with a sense of fulfilment. The day had been perfect for learning, relaxation, and appreciating natural splendour.
Driving the coast began another delightful chapter in our Sri Lankan adventure.
The day started with a visit to Coconut Tree Hill in Mirissa, a picturesque spot that perfectly encapsulated the island’s charm and laid-back vibe.
The hill offers panoramic views of the azure ocean and the golden sands below, making it a favourite spot for both locals and visitors. As we climbed to the top, we were greeted by a breathtaking view stretching as far as the eye could see.
The contrast between the palm trees’ vibrant green and the sea’s deep blue was striking, creating a perfect backdrop for photos and mindfulness. Once again, I must tell you that there were other people on the hill taking photos, and if you really want to enjoy these spots by yourself, you have to wake up super early.
After soaking in the sights and taking plenty of photos, we arrived in Ahangama at the PALM Hotel. The property exuded a relaxed luxury with its elegant design and stunning location.
The combination of natural beauty and refined luxury provided a perfect balance, leaving us refreshed and inspired as we continued our exploration of this enchanting island. The PALM Hotel is an absolute last destination for relaxation, good bites, and a stunning location.
We stayed in their new four-bed house, and I just felt like bringing that house back with me! As the sun descended, casting a golden glow over the town, we went to The Uncles Hotel, a highly recommended restaurant known for its exceptional beachside dining experience. Located right on the sand, The Uncles Hotel perfectly blended casual elegance and culinary excellence.
Note to self: if you do not like chilli, Sri Lankan cuisine is a no-no. We loved Sri Lankan food, but one of us couldn’t have chilli, and even though we asked for no chilli at all, it was impossible.
Our last day in Ahangama was spent exploring the town’s charming pathways, picturesque beach, and vibrant local markets.
Excited and nostalgic, we set out to make the most of our final hours in this beautiful coastal haven.
The afternoon was blissfully spent lounging by the PALM Hotel‘s beautiful infinity pool, where we enjoyed refreshing splashes. After a rejuvenating stay at the PALM Hotel, we returned to the town feeling revitalised and ready for a unique and meaningful experience of getting a tattoo at Babi’s Tattoo, a local talented artist with the skills for fine line tattoos! I totally recommend it!
We decided to mark our adventure with a memorable souvenir – a coconut palm tree tattoo, symbolising our journey and the enduring friendship we celebrated throughout our travels.
Our trip to Sri Lanka was more than just a holiday; it was a celebration of friendship and the joy of exploring the world together. Each moment, from the bustling streets of Colombo to the tranquil beaches of the south, brought us closer and created memories that we will cherish forever.
With its rich culture, stunning landscapes, and warm hospitality, Sri Lanka provided the perfect backdrop for our adventure. We returned home rejuvenated, inspired, and with a deeper appreciation for the incredible journey of life and friendship. Forever grateful. Sththuthi!
By Nice Mum
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